I would like to make a statement before i proceed further. The thoughts expressed in this post are purely the author's. As a reader, you may or may not like it...and I don't care..As long as I am alive, .As long as i can type and as long as my blog is online,they remain mine. Proceed.
Life has taught me some bitter , some sour , some sweet, some chewy and what-so-ever tasteful lessons. And it has been a great experience to be on the receiving side. You learn alot, how to tackle situations in the future, what kind of issues you might face...and plenty others. The point is, of all these relations, how much you value which one, the most.
Yes, I value my relation with my parents the most. And it would remain the same till my last breathe. Second, as of now i value the relation with my friends. Then, the one with my colleagues, then the one with the society and so on. The second one will change for sure in the near future when i have someone else in my life. Someone , who had been enjoying her life in her own way, and suddenly who comes to know about another fellow human being.
Relations with my relatives, haven't been so nice for a long time. In this world, you are valued based on the amount of money you have. You are rich? Then its cool for them. You are not, then it isn't that cool. Discrimination has been a part and parcel in life and i pity them for not being a human. They don't deserve that either.
Friends...., relations with them i have valued alot. n number of friends from school..n number of friends from college and n number of them @ work. That is me. For one or more reason, people like me. For one or more reason, i like many of them too..especially my dear one...bettykunju... Fact is i have never met her, but she is my besttttest one. I rank friends in a way everyone does. Some are intimate some are not, some are close , some are best..some are good. No matter How much ever classifications I have, i respect all of them.
Now there are relations, which you treasure more. Am not talking about the Friendly thing here..but yea more of the love thing...The love you have for someone. When you like some one , you feel excited. When someone likes you, you feel more excited. As of now, I am excited. Excited for the fact that I realize i like some one. Sadly,I haven't reached the next level. Also i do realize that things doesn't always happen the way you want it to. But still you pray for it. Can't help it . It's HUMAN. So my relationship status still remain single.
Let me scribble something about friaandship now. We all remember our school days far more clearer than our college days. Those police and robber games, hide and seek etc. The mind was so pure that your friends were like your siblings. As we grew up, our siblings seperated from us. Got a seperate set of people around you. SOme failed to keep in touch with their ex-siblings but some did. When i look back, i dont find a zillion # of friends to boast about, but from the millions i had, most of them underwent the change i mentioned couple of lines above. Now after, say 5 yrs, i find myself happy to be pinged by friends, whom you thought you lost forever and they come back to you. When asked, how others are, they prove you wrong. It did not happen with you alone, it happened with all of them. All of them had their own priorities, their own people and this tendency will always be there.
So were your experience with relations, more or less the same? Feel free to share.
N.B : Yes, for the fact that I have admitted that I like someone, doesn't really give anyone a chance to ask me who that is. Wish people realized certain things and made it lot more smoother. As a human, even i pray for things to get smoother.